Saturday, September 28, 2013

My Own Personal Therapist


Have you ever caught yourself wondering why you feel a certain way? Or why there is a feeling inside of you that you never quite seemed to understand? Well, that has been me for the past week. I don't quite know what it is, whether it's the season change, stress from taking a certain exam or the fact that I traveled half across the world away from my family. Either way, I'm pretty sure each and every one of us felt this " feeling " sometime in our lives. Now, having this feeling inside of you isn't quite a glorious thing, in fact, it could be quite depressing, taunting, annoying and most importantly, really stressful. 

Although most of us don't really know how to deal with emotions like this, it is quite simple. I can narrow it down for you in 3 simple words, Nothing is Constant. If you search up the word " Constant " on the internet, it would probably define it as a state where in nothing changes. That doesn't exist in our world. Now, most of you are probably wondering why I would say such a thing? Because it's the truth. Nothing is ever going to remain the same. We constantly lose our passion in things, if not, we slowly lose interest. We constantly want change. We always want new things, we get bored with the old easily. In some cases, this could be a bad thing but in reality, it is one of the best things in life. Why do I say this? Because what is life if we do not experience unexpected things? What is gonna keep us excited about life if we know whats coming ahead of us? 

I personally think that seeing life as an uncertain road is the best way to live it. Whether we chose to admit it or not, we all admire the unexpected things that happen to us. In some situations, it often starts off as a bad experience but as you think about it, that experience helped you to get to where you are now. 

 So no matter who you are, what you are feeling, whatever situation you are put in, remember, nothing is constant. Things are gonna change whether we like it or not. Because that's just how the universe works. But remember, it works for the better. So don't stress about life or worry about the future… you're going to be okay.

I'm pretty sure some of you are thinking, what about love? Does it ever remain constant? Now that is a different story that will be continued. 

All my love,
Lala.